Moving to a Big Kid Bed

When should you move your child from the crib to the big kid bed? Well, like many of the biggest questions parents often ask, there is no hard and fast rule. As a generalization, many experts point to three years old as a guideline. Of course, only you know, as a parent, when your child is physically and mentally ready for this big change. Here are some tips to help with this transition:

· Set the stage – like all change in a child’s life, introducing the topic gradually is a good way to start. Bring up the topic of a new big kid bed with your child. See if they are receptive to the idea. Try to create some, but not too much, excitement. Let them help shop for, and pick out their new bed or, let them prepare the room for its arrival.

· Keep some comfort items around – the tendency for adults is to start with a clean slate. Resist the urge to totally redecorate your child’s room. This might be too much change all at one time. In fact, if your child is really attached to their crib, leave it in the room. This let’s your child know that change can be gradual and change is usually for the positive.

· Pick the right time – too much change can be overwhelming to a child. Try to pick a time that is relatively calm. Avoid coordinating the move to a big kid bed with other family events like the birth of a sibling or the start of pre-school.

Patience is important during this milestone transition. But your child will love their new, roomier surroundings in no time.