Talking About the Danger of Strangers

It’s been the topic of many TV news shows and a parent’s worst nightmare. The danger of children being approached by strangers is an important subject that should be discussed with all children. Here are a few tips on having this difficult conversation.

Inform Don’t Scare

One of the mistakes parents sometimes make is giving too much detail to younger children. Children can easily become consumed with fear. Stick with the who (who is a stranger) and stay general on the why.

Explain the Rules

• Who is considered a stranger and who is not
• Parents or caregivers need to know where you are at all times
• For younger kids, parents or caregivers need to be able to see you at all times when on the playground, etc.
• What your child should do if they become separated – who should they seek help from
• Make sure your child knows their full name
• Teach your child their phone number and address

Practice Makes Perfect

Run through real life scenarios with your children. For example: If someone comes up to you and asks you to help them find their lost puppy would you help them? If someone approaches you and says your parents are hurt and are in the hospital would you go with them? Etc. These scenarios will allow you to model your child’s response and help them recognize potentially dangerous situations.

Source:http://life.familyeducation.com