Tall Tales

We have all heard our little ones bend the truth as they tell stories. But the question is, when is this just an overactive imagination and when do you consider it lying?

Why Toddlers Lie
Generally, there are three main reasons toddlers lies:

1. They have a strong imagination and are making up stories
2. They lie out of fear of being punished when they know they did something wrong
3. They lie so they can feel special, or make friends

All of these activities are normal for young children.
Tips on How to React

• Don’t make a big issue of the lie
• Don’t react with fear or anger
• Respond calmly and let your toddler know that you are aware of the lie
• If they are lying to avoid consequences, explain the lying to hide bad behavior makes the situation worse.

• Make sure to give your children lots of praise when they do tell the truth
When Lies Become a Problem
Here are some signs lying is becoming a problem:

If the frequency, seriousness, and behavior surrounding the lie becomes problematic.
If your child continues to lie as they become older and right and wrong become more defined

In general, lying is perfectly normal and it is part of growing up and fitting in for toddlers. Help your children define the lines between truth and lies and given them a great start in life.



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