The Shy Child

To keep with our theme this week we are going to talk about children who are shy. Not participating in activities is one thing, but not speaking or hiding from other children or adults may mean that you have a shy child. Rest-assured shyness is not abnormal. It is a relatively normal reaction to the world and it is even more prevalent in today’s fast-paced, highly interactive world. Here are some tips on how you can help your child overcome their shyness.

Positive Reinforcement
It’s important that the shy child receives lots of positive encouragement. Take them time to validate your shy child’s thoughts and ideas. Let them know that their opinions matter. This doesn’t always mean public praise for their efforts. Find out how your child prefers praise. Some children may respond to praise in front of the rest of the family, others may respond better if you pull them aside and tell them how proud you are of them. Either way, positive encouragement will do wonders for self-esteem.

Prepare Your Child for Social Situations
Let your child know what the proper response is in social situations. Explain that when they meet another adult or child that they should introduce themselves. Give them examples of how they can address others. Practice these social interactions so that your shy child feels more comfortable.

Support Your Child
Let your shy child know that it’s ok to be who they are. In many cases your child will grow out of their shyness. If you think their is more to your child’s shyness consult a health care professional.